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Timing, Consistency, and Building Trust

Mastering the mechanics that make training effective and strengthen your bond.

Why Timing Is Everything

The marker must come within half a second of the desired behaviour. Any longer and your pet may not connect the marker to what they did. This is the single most important mechanical skill in training.

Example: You are teaching your dog to sit. The instant their bum touches the floor — click! Then treat. If you click after they have already stood back up, you are marking the stand, not the sit.

Practice Tips

  • Watch a YouTube video of a bouncing ball and click each time it hits the ground to practise your timing
  • Have someone drop a tennis ball and click the instant it touches the floor
  • Keep treats pre-prepared in a pouch or bowl — fumbling for treats slows your delivery and weakens the connection

Remember: the marker captures the moment, the treat is the payment. The marker does not need to come at the same time as the treat — it just needs to come at the same time as the behaviour. You can take a second or two to deliver the treat after the marker.

Consistency Across the Household

Inconsistency is one of the biggest training killers. If one person rewards the dog for sitting before dinner and another person feeds the dog while it jumps around, the dog learns that jumping sometimes works — which makes it harder to extinguish.

Rules for Household Consistency

  • Agree on the rules as a household. Write them down if needed
  • Use the same cue words. If mum says ‘down’ and dad says ‘off,’ the dog hears two different requests
  • Use the same marker. Everyone uses the clicker or everyone uses ‘Yes!’
  • Enforce the same boundaries. If the dog is not allowed on the couch, that applies to everyone, every time
  • Be patient with each other. Training is a skill and everyone learns at different speeds — including the humans
Quiz

Timing Quiz

You are teaching your dog to lie down. When should you click or say your marker word?

A When you give the verbal cue 'down'
B The instant the dog's body hits the floor
C After you have given them the treat
D When the dog looks at you expectantly
The marker must capture the exact moment the desired behaviour occurs — in this case, the instant the dog's body touches the floor. This precise timing is what makes marker training so effective at communicating exactly what you want.
Info

Trust is built through thousands of small, consistent interactions — not through grand gestures. Every time you follow through on your marker promise, every time you respect your pet's boundaries, and every time you respond to their stress signals, you are making deposits in the trust bank. Punishment makes withdrawals.

True or False

Treat Delivery Check

The treat must be delivered at the exact same moment as the marker for training to work.
True
False
The marker captures the moment of the correct behaviour. The treat can follow a second or two later. This is the whole point of the marker — it buys you time to reach for and deliver the treat while still communicating precisely which behaviour earned the reward.
Checklist

Training Session Preparation Checklist

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High-value treats prepared and easily accessible (treat pouch or bowl)
Quiet environment with minimal distractions for early training
Clicker or verbal marker ready
Clear goal for this session (one behaviour or one criterion at a time)
Session timer set for 3–5 minutes (short sessions are more effective)
All household members briefed on the cue word and rules
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Important Question

Do you speak
cat or dog?

Choose wisely. This affects everything.

Dog Woof woof!
Cat Meow meow!